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Forums General Discussions 14 Rope Bondage Sex Positions To Dominate RN

14 Rope Bondage Sex Positions To Dominate RN

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12:47 pm
May 16, 2021

philipmatthews37

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Feeling the need to tie someone up or be tied up? Congratulations! You’re normal. Bondage—the B in BDSM aka Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism— is a super common fantasy. And if you don’t really know how to tell your partner that you’re into trying it, also completely normal.

“When you want to initiate a conversation about bondage, remember to have empathy, actively listen, ask open-ended questions, and validate how the other person feels about it,” says sexual communication expert Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, PhD., Assistant Professor in the Department of Human Communication Studies at California State University, Fullerton. “Ask open-ended questions like ‘What do you think are some advantages and disadvantages in trying BDSM?’ And validate your partner. If they say they’re open to trying but are scared, you can say ‘Thank you for being open to it and sharing your honest opinion. I think it’s totally normal to be scared for something we’ve never tried before!’”

Also, keep in mind that for people who’ve experienced trauma, bondage can be fraught territory. “You don’t know someone’s full sexual history, so have empathy if they don’t respond to your request positively,” says Suwinyattichaiporn.

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Beginner’s Luck

If one of you is really uncomfortable with being bound right away, try a test round with oral sex and no actual rope or cuffs. The person who is bravely giving it a go lies flat with their hands pressed under their butt so they’re essentially binding themselves. If it gets too hardcore for them, they can release their hands whenever they want and all is well.

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The Full Spread

A spreader bar (or bondage tape and a broom handle) forces the receiver’s ankles apart and gives easy access to their butt, while making them feel exposed and vulnerable (which is good here!). The receiver gets on all fours and the giver can torment them with toy, mouth, hands or penetration.

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The Naughty Chair
receiver is straddling an armless chair with their butt at the front edge of the chair with their chest against the back of the chair and their ankles bound to the front chair legs and wrists bound behind their back

The receiver sits backwards in a hard armless chair placed in the corner for dramatic effect. Receiver leans forward so their chest is touching the back of the chair and their butt is hanging over the front edge. The receiver’s ankles are bound to the front chair legs and their wrists tied behind their back. Good for butt stuff, general discomfort and any manner of jacked up role playing game.

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The Rag Doll
Even spooning can be kinked up with bondage. The little spoon’s wrists and forearms are bound together in front of them. Big spoon can rock the little spoon’s hips as they please—onto a strap-on, vibrator or penis. Spanking optional.

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The X Factor

Find the just right spot between arousing uncertainty and “help! way too f*cking vulnerable” with your partner in a face down X position. Being face down feels less exposed and safe(r), but still edgy bc the person lying down can’t see what’s going on. Slide your hand under them for a lubey hand job and if you/they want, use the other hand to play with their butt.

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Be Mine
Bind your wrist to your partner’s (handcuffs are better for this one, unless you want a three-legged race-type couples challenge where you’re trying to tie yourselves up) and lead them astray. You’re in charge of what happens next. Push their hand up over their head and ride them or roll them on their side and move their hand over your body as you please.

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Pass the Velvet Rope
For comfort in the discomfort that is being tied up, try a standing position using restraints that fit over a door. (You can also bind their wrists to the door knob.) They can either be facing you to see what you have in store for them, or keep them on edge by facing them toward the door. Try using only your mouth to touch them to focus their attention extra on every sensation.
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Over the Moon
Bend your partner over a sturdy bar stool, binding their ankles and wrists to the stool leg. You can flog them gently (or not so gently) or torture them otherwise with tongue, toy, or the promise of penetration if they beg hard enough.

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This Little Piggie
If you want to try the classic bondage position of hog-tying but aren’t (yet) a master, go ahead and cheat a little with a restraint system that does the positioning for you. Your lovah/victim lies on their stomach while you bind their ankles and arms behind their back. They’ll still be pretty restricted in their movements, but the restraint makes it a little more comfortable and less hard-core. Reward their good behavior with a lube-y reach-around.

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The Hot Seat
Sit ’em in a straight-back chair and tie each of their legs to the chair legs and their wrists behind them. Blindfold them so they’ll be hyper-alert to whatever you chose to do with them. Some people like being teased with a feather or ice cube and your warm mouth. Others might want something rougher like a random slap or a whack on the thighs with a spatula. That part is for y’all to work out ahead of time with clear ground rules.

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Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down
Start them off easy with a single silk tie (you can buy special bondage ties or just use a plain ol’ men’s tie) to tie their wrists together over their head. Lie them on their back and mount them, telling them they are absolutely not allowed to move. Until you say so anyway.

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On the Ropes
Go a little deeper with rope bondage. (Safety first: Don’t tie too tight. Have scissors on hand in case of a problem.) You can’t ever communicate too much during bondage, so ask your partner along the way how things feel. They kneel with their face to the floor, butt in the air, and their wrists tied to their ankles. Slide a finger into their bum and use the other hand to give them a lube-y hand job. Make them beg for it first, of course.

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The Mark
Never will someone be more at your mercy than when they are on their back and completely open to whatever is gonna go down. Have them (or hell, order them) to lie on their back and open their legs for you. Their arms go under their knees and hands on their outside ankles so you can bind their wrists to their ankles (there’s bondage tape for the knot-challenged). This is traditionally a dude tying up a woman position, but you can flip it and make them watch as you touch yourself.

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The Ravished
Have them lie on their back spread-eagle, attaching each limb to a corner of the bed. (Use handcuffs attached to the head- and footboards, bondage tape wrapped around the mattress corners or an under-the-bed restraint system.) Once helpless, torture them with some infuriatingly slow oral.

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